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Frequently asked Questions
Please take the time to read through this page or click on one of the questions.
It may have the answer you're looking for.


1.How do we obtain a marriage license?

2.What is "legally Married"?

3.Do we have to get married in a church?

4.Do you require premarital counseling?

5.Can we write our own vows?

6.What can we consider for a
customized wedding ceremony?


7.What do you wear for the ceremony?

8.Will you travel?

9.What is included?

10.What do you charge?

11.Do you supply a sound system?

12.Do you participate in the rehearsal?

13.Do you require to be included in the reception?

14.What is a re-commitment Ceremony?

15.No one knows we were married,or we just want to retake our vows. Can we get married again in a ceremony with our friends and family?

16.Do you accept credit card payments?




Q: How do we obtain a marriage license?

A: You must go to a County Clerks office to obtain a Marriage License. http://www.tdh.state.tx.us/bvs/registra/marriage.htm

ID Requirement: One valid form of id such as drivers license, certified copy of your birth certificate, U. S. passport, military ID card, and your Social Security number.

Residency Requirement: You do not have to be a resident of Texas.

Child Support Statement: A notorized statement pertaining to child support must be submitted. Applications will not be processed without the proper submission of this statement.

Pre-marital Education: Couples are encouraged to attend a premarital education course that is at least four hours duration. It must be finished during the year preceding applying for a marriage license. Contact the county clerk for a roster of area course providers.

Previous Marriage: If divorced within thirty days, you will need to show a certified copy of your divorce decree stating the 30 day waiting period is waived.

Waiting Period: The 72 hours (3 days) waiting period can be waived for active duty military personnel.

Fees: ~$42 cash. Varies county to county.

Other Tests: Blood tests or medical examinations are not required.

Under 18: If you are between 14 and 17 years old, you may apply for a marriage license only if you have written parental consent on an official form in the presence of the county clerk or if you have received an order from the Texas district court authorizing your marriage.

Proxy Marriages: Yes. Any adult person can apply on behalf of an applicant who is unable to appear personally before the county clerk. An affidavit must be provided.

Cousin Marriages: Yes.

Common Law Marriages: Yes. Also referred to as an informal marriage. Couples can file a Declaration of Informal Marriage or show proof that they are living together and representing themselves to others as a married couple.

Same Sex Marriages: No.

Officiants: Persons authorized to perform weddings in Texas include licensed or ordained Christian ministers, priests, Jewish rabbis, officers authorized by religious organizations, justices of the supreme court, judges of the court of criminal appeals, justices of the courts of appeals, judges of the district, county, and probate courts, judges of the county courts at law, judges of the courts of domestic relations, judges of the juvenile courts, retired justices or judges, justices of the peace, retired justices of the peace, and judges or magistrates of a federal court of Texas.

Miscellaneous: The license is valid for 30 days.
Copy of Certificate of Marriage:
Bureau of Vital Statistics
Texas Department of Health
P.O. Box 12040
Austin, TX 78711-2040
Phone - (512) 458-7111

Useful links:

Birth Certificates
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www.nationalbirthcertificate.com

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www.usbirthcertificate.com

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www.vitalchek.com



Q: What is legally "married?"

A: In the State of Texas, a legal "marriage" must take place according to the laws of the County in which the ceremony takes place. You are officially "married" when a legally authorized person** performs the ceremony, signs the license and submits the signed license to the county clerks office. Witnesses are NOT REQUIRED in the state of TEXAS. You must exchange your vows of commitment, but wedding rings are optional and not required.

**authorized persons are all clergy (i.e. pastors, priests, ministers, rabbis, etc and others like Judges, Justices of the Peace, etc.)
NOTE: There is also a informal marriage called Common-Law Marriage, this requires nothing more than living as Husband and Wife in the eyes of the community.
Check http://www.trgc.com/center/txproperty.htm for more information.



Q: Do we have to get married in a church?

A: You can get married in the State of Texas anywhere within the legal boundaries of the State. That includes all public and private buildings, parks and beaches, not just churches. Bodies of water are also acceptable (lakes, rivers, etc.)



Q: Do you require premarital counseling?

A: No, premarital counseling is not required.



Q: Can we write our own vows?

A: Yes it is your wedding, and should be exactly what you want.. Of course, if you need guidance, with any aspect of your wedding ceremony, I will be glad to help with suggestions.



Q: What should we consider for a customized wedding ceremony?

A: You may consider anything you'd like. My services vary from non-denominational which will include traditional religious references to no religious reference at all! Romantic readings and favorite songs are always wonderful to add to the ceremony. Just remember, It's your special day and the ceremony should consist of meaningful segments from you.



Q: What do you wear for the ceremony?

A: Now that you have planned everything, from the gowns, flowers, music, table linens and centerpieces, invitations and entertainment. Why wouldn't you have a say in what I wear? I have the following options. 1) Black ceremonial robe 2) Black suit 3) Black Clergy shirt. I also have attire for beach and park weddings and am open to being dressed for a theme wedding (Within reason of course)
NOTE: Additional charge for any attire that must be rented, Tux, period costumn, ect.



Q: Will you travel?

A: If I am requested to officiate outside the Houston Metro area [to include Conroe (north), on the coast from Galveston south to Seaside], there will be an additional fee to compensate for time and fuel. (Call for more information) In the event I am asked to Officiate out of town, additional costs (airfare, accommodations and meals) are the responsibility of the Bride and Groom and must be paid in advance.



Q: What is included?

A: My fee includes one meeting with the couple if requested, any conversations up to the wedding day either by phone or email, a ceremony handbook that you will receive when you reserve your date that includes all facets of the ceremony and sample scripts for each segment. Several pre-written traditional ceremonies, if requested.
You will also receive a booklet with a copy of your personalized ceremony on parchment and a ceremonial certificate suitable for framing as a special rememberance.



Q: What do you charge?

A: My fee varies, average cost is about $225, depending on location and size of Wedding. A $50 non-refundable deposit reserves your date. There are additional Travel fees for some locations, please submit a request for availability and price or call for info.



Q: Do you supply a sound system?

A: Yes, if there will be no sound system available at the location, I have one to use. This PA system may be rented if you need one for your reception, an additional charge will be required.



Q: Do you participate in the rehearsal?

A: While I don't require a rehearsal, I think it is a very good idea.



Q: Do you require to be included in the reception?

A: Although some officiates in the area require they (and with some, their spouse) be included in the reception, I do not. That is entirely up to you. During the busier seasons, time may not allow me to participate.



Q: What is a re-commitment ceremony?

A: Most re-commitment ceremonies are done at special anniversary's or when a couple reunites after a separation. These services are very emotional and touching as there is more of a story to tell with plenty of memories. The ceremony is performed the same as the first marriage with most couples writing there own vows and sharing romantic stories.



Q: We were married in a small civil ceremony at the County Courthouse and no one knows
Can we get married again in a ceremony with our friends and family?

A: Of course! The only thing that changes is the filing of any paperwork as you should already have a license. It would be up to you as to how to present the ceremony to your friends and family. I would perform the ceremony as an officiate the same as I would any couple. Most call this a "re-commitment" ceremony but no one needs to know if you don't want them to.




Q:Do you accept credit card payments?

A: Of course! But only through "PAYPAL" - You must signup for a "PAYPAL" account to pay by credit card. It is very simple and only takes a few minutes




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Rev. Alan R. Safford
e-mail: revalsafford@yahoo.com
ph: 281-748-9248
fax: 281-980-2303

2742 Quarry Hill Rd.
Sugar Land, TX 77478
United States